Relationship Women

14 Ways to Get Over a Guy Who Used You and Take Back Your Power

If you’re reading this, then you’re probably hurting and want to know how to get over a guy who used you. Listen, I feel you, girl. I think it’s safe to say we’ve all experienced being used by someone.

A couple of guys used me when I was younger, and it took a long time to get over. Especially when you never really had them. If you were in a genuine relationship, at least it was real. But when someone uses you, was it real? I mean, yes, your emotions were real, but the situation wasn’t genuine. So, of course, it stings.

But this doesn’t mean you should lock yourself in your house, never to see daylight. Screw this guy. Yeah, you miss hanging out with him. Blah blah blah. But he wasn’t really into you. That’s it.

How to get over a guy who used you

I know it’s a little harsh, but it’s time to wake up, girl! Take back your life. Get up on your feet and move forward. He’ll be fine… Actually, he’ll probably do this again, so don’t worry. Eventually, karma will smile back at him. So, let’s get over him, okay?

I’m not saying this will happen overnight because it won’t. But getting started is the first step. If you want to know how to get over a guy who used you, you’ve come to the right place. It’s time to leave him in the past and move on. Can I get an amen?

#1 Don’t be the victim. 

It’s really easy to start thinking, why me? Why is this happening to me? Listen, it happened to you. You’re not on some special list that protects you from jerks. You met a guy, and he used you. But you are not a victim. This doesn’t mean you’ll never find a new guy who loves you, you will.

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