(9) You are always busy trying to figure out the perfect responses:
What you fail to understand that there’s no things as a ‘perfect response.’ You analyze and analyze trying to think of that response which makes it pretty difficult for you to start or continue a conversation. And any possibility of a date ends right there.
(10) You can’t speak up for yourself:
What you find most difficult is speaking up for yourself. You fail to make the other person understand what’s going on inside your head. This makes it very hard to establish a bonding.
(11) You feel insecure of the circumstances:
You don’t say much but you’re extremely insecure about the circumstances which is why you think too much. In order to avoid the insecurity, you simply avoid the situation.